Kit's Say On: Commitment & Relationships Part II

it's a nice gesture for althie to do this : show the whole world how much he loves me.. *laughs* it's not that i don't appreciate it.. it's just that i'm not that sort to show my emotions that much. especially when it comes to matters of the heart.

however, since it is HIS blog and i'm just a member here, there isn't much i can say, is there?

you guys who've read my blog and who really know me will know what i think of all this. *grins sardonically*

i just wanted to say:

thanks for thinking i'm your soulmate, althie. it's really sweet of you. and you're cute althie. that's why i'm dating you...for now. *laughs wickedly* cute, and other... uh... more.. interesting reasons... but we don't want to shock the world, do we? *chuckles evilly*

oh, and yeah, i did call him while he was blogging. *rolls eyes and sighs* what happened to all them men that didn't have an ounce of EQ? not that i'm complaining.... much...

and spelling, althie...tsk tsk...

hehehe... keep on blogging, dear.

Of Commitment and Relationships Part II

i never thought that i would have a part II in my blog but since i was pulled away from my previous blogging session and couldnt finish....well here you have it part II on my thoughts of commitment and relationship

Now before I go on i should probably explain exactly who emmy is... no im not going to reveal her real life name and everything, i have invited her as a member of my blog (and hopefully she will accept, why didnt i think of that before her..grrr) and if she wants she will reveal it herself...what i am going to say emmy is the name i use to call kittypryde who also calls herself kit so dont you guys get confused , kit = kittypryde=emmy. Im not annoucing that emmy is my girlfriend in the previous post and then straight away go around and tell kit that i love her...*chatterbox* they are one and the same.

ok... ploughing on.. some people (guys mostly, but there seems to be more and more gals that fall into this category) have a problem commiting to a relationship.. they go out together..spend an exhorbant of time with each other and assume that they are an "item"... i know..been there..done that... and this phobia is understandable...well i think i understand it. My view on the hesitance to actually go out and say or rather like we do it here "declare" that the couple is an "item" ie. girlfriend+boyfriend is mainly due to the complications and built in fear to actually be shackled by the declaration of being a couple... if you dont actually declare and something goes wrong they think they can just shrug it of and assume that since it wasnt declared they werent actually a couple in the first place so it doesnt really matter... the reason i highlighted think is because they might think that but when a relationship goes awry....whether declared or not it hurts just the same..not declaring does not shield you from the hurt of a broken heart and it might actually make it worse because then you would start having doubts..if i had declared... maybe it wouldnt have ended like this or something similiar.. im not saying that that happens all the time or even if my view is correct its just MY view... ok

Well, some of you might be asking what my view on commiting to a relationship has got anything to do with the relationship that i have right now.... ok.. for those of you who didnt catch or read properly what i wrote in the preceding paragraphs (i know some of you are a bit slow...and i will make allowances for you guys...*grins*) ive been through a relationship where i did just that.. not declaring..just assuming and it did blow up in my face...but not because i didnt declare or anything..those close to me knows the whole story and attest to the fact that that wasnt the reason we broke up.. just trust me..it wasnt. Getting back on track..i sorta assumed that the next relationship would follow the same pattern and i wouldnt need to declare or all that nonsense (well i did think it at THAT time laa) and i wasnt actually looking for someone new...(even after all the hurt had subsided) when suddenly i found her...

and the rest as they say, is history

adios for now

Of Commitment & Relationships

hi you guys.... *ducking all the vegetables and eggs being thrown at me* yes... good to see that you all still love me.... even though i havent blogged in a while and while we are on that subject i would like to annouce the this post will focus on LOVE.... i better warn you it might be
quite long and might even turn mushy in some parts... so for all you gentleman and gentlewomen out there that cant stand the topic or the mushiness please feel free to navigate away.... no bitching though....my blog.... my posts laaa


so here starts a spoiler gap for those that are to navigate away... so your eyes wont be drawn even a little bit to the topic and you can safely surf away with no one the wiser... for those that want to read on... i welcome you all the the joys and splendour that i feel right now....

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hehehehe...frustrating wasnt it? well, i honestly tak nak those that arent really interested to know what im about to say at this blog..... so..... for all of you that have preservered and want to know what im talking about... well, damn.... i thought this would be easier than this... its just an announcement actually... why cant i .....*deep breath*

Everyone..Boys and Girls..EMMY HAS AGREED TO BE MY GIRLFRIEND.......

now that wasnt too hard now was it... *hush rin.... so what if i wanted it to be a little dramatic* hehehe ive got to get my digs in first coz im pretty sure that rin will leave some comments.... let me get some shots in first... damn.. gtg for awhile.. continue after this...

Filler

well well well, i seem to have neglegted this blog for some time, i nearly forogt how to make new posts.... nearly dammit, not entirely forgot..... i had a very interesting weekend... ill be posting the whole experience up soon....(someone, somewhere is porbably saying to herself "promises, promises") i just need to organize my thoughts a bit... when its posted up you'll probably undertsand why... some of you might be thinking, then why is he posting it this thing up then.... well, i promised someone ill update the blog and even azam is complaining.... jangan ler merajuk azam and bagi ler email hang ... hang balik biler woi.. rindu lak..... oh yeah , i should probably say it now before i forget

TERIMA KASIH BAYAM DAN SEMUA DI KELAPUT KERANA SUDI MENUMPANGKAN KU DI SANA UNTUK BEBERAPA HARI YANG LEPAS.....


oops.. its time to wake someone up..... so thats all for now... be good you all and i promise i will blog again... hehehehe